Did you save yourself for marriage?

by admin on March 2, 2010



I’m planning to save myself for marriage. Did you? If you didn’t, did you regret having sex?

Originally posted 2009-04-16 13:06:23.

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{ 8 comments… read them below or add one }

mamamoon April 17, 2009 at 9:55 am

no I did not save myself and no I do not regret it

lolita (asmaa) April 17, 2009 at 11:38 am

i waited until 18
after all i got married at 19
i had saved my self
but then i was like the heck with it
i wish i waited because only one year for me and i was gonna give it to my husband
but i don t care

Blessed21 April 19, 2009 at 3:18 pm

i didn’t save myself for marriage. i would have liked to give myself to my husband but then i would be even more hooked on him than i am now (divorcing). everytime i am with him i think he’s comparing me to the many women he’s been with before me. i would rather a man with a smaller rap sheet.

Nort April 22, 2009 at 3:59 pm

Being a virgin when you marry is just plain unfair to your partner,
If you are a virgin you just cannot enjoy the first night with your spouse.
Some people kill for the hope of being with 78 virgins, I see 78 virgins as Hell.

Betty M April 24, 2009 at 1:54 pm

It was important for me to wait until marriage. At the time it was the right thing for me. But…..I’m sorry I did. I thought my wedding night would be romantic and wonderful. How wrong I was. It was a nightmare. I was scared, my husband didn’t understand that and he wasn’t the least bit understanding.

If I could go back and do my life over. I wouldn’t sleep around, but I would insist on having sex with the man I planned on marrying, before we got married. I could have learned some very important things about him and I probably would have never married him.

My sister waited until marriage and 6 months later she divorced her husband. She said he was horrible in bed and if she had sex with him before they got married, she would have never married her husband either.

Sex is not everything, but it is an important part of marriage. I would never again make the mistake of marrying a man without having sex with him first. I want to know what I’m getting before I make a lifetime commitment and say I do. Would you buy a car without driving it first?

acousticman April 27, 2009 at 11:45 pm

i saved myself for marriage and it was great

SAHM April 30, 2009 at 5:13 pm

No, and while my husband did not save himself either, I wish he had more experience before we met. Lack of experience is, in my personal opinion, not a plus when you are in a monogamous relationship for the rest of your life.

jaquie September 25, 2009 at 7:06 pm

no i did not,did my husband save him self for me,,,no he did not,so what who cares,marriage ends in divorce anyways

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