My husband has said he thinks he might have married me out of guilt. We had a child prior to marriage. He doesn’t know if he loves me or wants our marriage to work. How can we rejuviante our marriage and work through his feelings to save our marriage???
Originally posted 2008-12-21 11:57:16.
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Deb, you should spend some time with your husband alone, talk to him, communicate. I am sure you have shared good times together, but also know that if he doesn’t want to stay in it, you should not try to pursue him or he will only hurt you more. I am sorry
The marriage itself should be your last concern.
Your first concern is to talk to your husband and determine if he really loves you. If he doesn’t love you, then there is no reason to have a shell of a marriage just to keep up appearances for your child.
Per the bible, love hurts no one and love doesn’t seek selfish advantage. And further, your husband would love you AS MUCH AS he loves himself. If these statements are not holding true in your marriage, then you already have your answer.